tough stuff
I've found that looking closely at life's hardest experiences--after the fact, on the page--is scarier than living through them the first time.
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Hazard of Hope
"Hazard of Hope" was my first public acknowledgment that my long-term relationship had ended. I wrote it, in part, to force myself to address my shame (at the time) of being unmarried. (This essay was published in March 2015. The entire piece can be read here: https://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/03/the-hazard-of-hope/) -
How I Learned My Weight Is Not My Worth
Although family and close friends already knew about my disordered eating, this essay was my first time sharing widely about my struggles. (This essay was published in January 2016. The entire piece can be read here: https://www.elephantjournal.com/2016/01/how-i-learned-that-my-weight-is-not-my-worth/) -
June 3rd
I wrote this vignette in response to the murder of one of my students--the first of several over my career. In it, I combined fact and fiction; otherwise, his loss felt too real. (This vignette was published in April 2016. The piece can also be read here: https://aquietcourage.wordpress.com/2016/04/01/june-3rd/) -
Long hours, no respect: One teacher’s cry for help
Before this essay was published, a union representative told me what to expect if the school district disciplined me the way they have other educators who have publicly criticized their leadership. (This essay was published in June 2022. The entire piece can be read here: https://www.thebaltimorebanner.com/creatives-in-residence/long-hours-no-respect-one-teachers-cry-for-help-LJ276YUIYNEGPOX4COVM7SVW3M/) -
What losing my brother taught me about grief: Take the advice that works, leave the rest
The hardest thing I've ever had to write was my brother's obituary. This essay--my first on grieving his sudden death--is the second. (This essay was published in December 2022. The entire piece can be read here: https://www.thebaltimorebanner.com/creatives-in-residence/holiday-grief-self-care-J6HXJLZEQJERDDVQNJ4RYIJFDI/)